The Original Social Media Guru June 8, 2009
Posted by Chuck Musciano in Book Reviews, Networking.Tags: Best Of 2009, Book Reviews, Books, Communication, Customer Service, Facebook, LinkedIn, Networking, Relationships, Twitter
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If you spend any time doing anything on the internet, you will soon stumble across a special kind of expert who is just dying to help you improve your virtual social life. These self-professed Social Media Gurus promise to reveal deep secrets about Twitter, Facebook, and LinkedIn, all designed to garner you more followers, more attention, and more interest on the internet.
Let’s face it: the vast, vast majority of Social Media Gurus know just a teeny bit more than you do about all this stuff. If you really wanted to learn their secrets, ten minutes with Google (or Bing, which is growing on me) will make you a Social Media Guru, too. And if you really want 100,000 followers, or friends, or connections, one mortifying YouTube video should do the trick.
All these social networking tools are just communication tools: conduits for information. You can learn the mechanics of any of them in a day, and absorb most of the culture in a week. But that doesn’t make you any more social, although you may have made a good start at a network.
What matters is what you send over those conduits. The information you share and how you respond to others is what’s important. It’s the content that counts, not the mechanics of the tool.
Most modern Social Media Gurus want to teach you the mechanics. This is not social networking, just like understanding the mechanics of a piano is not going to make you a piano player. Very few Social Media Gurus can teach you what to send using these systems, once you have mastered the mechanics.
Sadly, the very best Social Media Guru died in 1955, before any of these things were invented. Fortunately for us, he wrote down all his secrets well before he passed away. That Guru was Dale Carnegie, and his secrets are revealed in his book, How To Win Friends & Influence People.
If you have never read this book, do yourself a great favor and pick up a copy. For Amazon’s bargain price of $8.70 ($0.96 on your Kindle) you can learn the secrets of the greatest Social Media Guru in history. Carnegie’s book is easy to read, with each concept presented in a short chapter with supporting anecdotes. If even that’s too much for you, he summarizes each chapter with a one-line moral at the end. The anecdotes are delightful, recalling social situations from the 1920’s and 1930’s that are still relevant today.
If you have read this book before, read it again. You will have the same revelations all over again, and be even more committed to changing the way you communicate with people. Carnegie was among the first, and is still the best, Social Media Guru.
I won’t even try to summarize Carnegie’s advice here. Click the link above, buy the book, and start your summer reading with the one book that could truly improve every relationship you have.
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Spelling Bee! June 1, 2009
Posted by Chuck Musciano in Random Musings.Tags: Customer Service, Quality, Spelling
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By chance, I stumbled upon the finals of the National Spelling Bee last week. I watched a bit for fun, but was soon completely captivated. I wound up watching all ten rounds to see who would win.
I am a stickler for correct spelling. Spelling, like math, is either right or wrong. There is no “close enough” in spelling, even if the reader can figure out what you were trying to say. Poor spelling says, in effect, “I can’t figure this out; you do it.”
It was fascinating to see the competitors work through the Bee. For each word, they were able to ask questions about origin and meaning, as well as alternate pronunciations and appropriate usage. The color commentator was great, explaining how these clues helped. Word origin is especially helpful since various root and suffix patterns differ between Latin, Greek, and Germanic origins. Sure enough, one kid used the Greek origin of a word to pick out the correct “rrh” pattern in the middle of a medical term.
As all these things do, it came down to a four-time competitor and a newby, battling through the list of “Championship Words.” The newcomer, seventh-grader Tim Ruiter, missed “maecenas.” This opened the door for Kavya Shivashankar to nail “laodicean” for the win. Personally, I didn’t think this was fair. “Maecenas” has that awful blended “ae” and a soft “c,” making it almost impossible to spell if you haven’t seen it before. “Laodicean,” on the other hand, is spelled exactly as it sounds and is a somewhat more common word.
Although I think a better final round would involve soundproof chambers and everyone spelling the same words at the same time, I can’t complain about the general intent of the Bee: to reward those who care to get it right, who take the time to do the job well.
Would that we would all apply similar discipline and focus to everything we do, spelling or otherwise. Many people view spelling as a small, inconsequential thing, but it represents a far larger concern. There is no difference between a writer with poor spelling and a painter who does sloppy trim work, or a carpenter who doesn’t sand everything evenly. Either you care enough to do a job right, or you don’t.
Spelling matters. Grammar matters. Punctuation matters. Neat painting and smooth furniture matter. As does making that extra call to a customer, taking an extra moment to listen to someone’s concerns, or working a bit harder to understand a problem. Little things do matter, and all the things that seem big are really just lots of little things strung together. Get the little things right, and the big things will come much easier.
I Can Help! May 29, 2009
Posted by Chuck Musciano in Leadership.Tags: Customer Service, Management Skills, Users
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My mother tells the story of a friend who was caught in a power outage. The line for her house was down,keeping her from getting power even as other parts of town were being restored. Repeated calls to the power company had no effect as they busied themselves with other, more important areas.
Finally, in frustration, she called the power company and asked them to cancel the service call. “Why?” they asked. She explained that she knew they were very busy, dealing with all those other customers. Her husband, she said, was very handy, and was headed outside with a ladder to reconnect the drop line himself. They were aghast. “Don’t let you husband touch those lines!” “Oh, no,” she assured them. “It’s OK. We just want to help out, and this way you can send your people to fix other houses instead.”
A truck roared up in five minutes, and her power was restored.
At some point, every organization is a service organization, focused on internal or external customers. As we try to provide “fair” service, it can be easy to lose sight of one or two customers who warrant our attention even though they may not be as big or as important as other customers. What seems fair to us can seem completely unjust to those who are on the wrong side of the decision. That leads to frustration that forces customers to threaten unusual behavior to get our attention.
As we manage with limited resources, we need to keep in mind that every customer is equally important. While it may impossible to serve everyone at once, we need to find creative ways to serve everyone a little bit. The vast majority of customers are fair-minded; when they see that everyone is getting some measure of service, they tend to recognize that we’re doing the best we can in a tough situation.
This goes beyond IT issues like fixing PCs and resolving system errors. Some of us may be faced with allocating scarce products among competing customers. Others may have legal work or audits to be done under tight deadlines with limited personnel. It’s easy to tell everyone to just wait their turn as we honestly work to get to each customer as quickly as we can. In these days of instant gratification and rapid responses to everything, we need to find ways to provide a little bit of service to everyone, just so they know we understand their needs and are working to meet them.
This kind of incremental service isn’t easy and sometimes requires a complete rethinking of how we tackle problems. It may not always be necessary; sometimes we’re blessed with enough resources to take care of everyone at once. But we all need these skills when times get tight. If not, we’ll have customers reaching for live wires, and that causes problems that are a lot harder to solve.
