The Price Of Folly August 12, 2009
Posted by Chuck Musciano in Leadership.Tags: Best Of 2009, Leadership, Management Skills, Relationships
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One of my favorite quotes is from Herbert Spencer:
The ultimate result of shielding men from the effects of their folly is to fill the world with fools.
Spencer was a Victorian-era English philosopher who focused much of his thought on evolution at a higher, social level. He coined the phrase “survival of the fittest” and was an very well-known thinker in his day. It is safe to say that he would not suffer fools gladly, regardless of how they were produced.
Spencer’s quote was directed at some of the prevailing political ideas of his time and was intended to shape broad public opinion. Regardless of how you define “folly” (or “fool,” for that matter), his quote is a cautionary one: do not protect people from their mistakes, thus preventing them from learning from them.
His advice is just as important in the day-to-day business world that we all manage. Mistakes happen all the time, caused by hundreds of different reasons, let alone folly. How we handle them not only says a lot about our leadership skills, but also dictates how our organization succeeds.
With the current emphasis on soft skills, many leaders try to soften the impact of a mistake. Even when people are upset, we try to soothe them and diminish the impact of the error. Our goal is noble, and we may make them feel better, but we also miss an opportunity for someone to really absorb the impact of their error. Shielding a person from the impact of their mistake can be disastrous, leading them to believe that mistakes, although unpleasant, aren’t all that bad.
The opposite kind of leader is just as bad. Ranting and raving may make you feel better, but you are not helping the person who made the mistake. While Spencer may be happy that you have certainly not shielded them, it isn’t clear that you have helped them either.
There is a middle ground, of course, but it can be difficult to achieve. I do believe that people need to understand the impact of their error. Tiny errors at one level can cascade to become disasters later, and people need to come to terms with the magnitude of their mistakes. I will often explain to a person all the potential issues their error could lead to, not to make them feel bad (they should anyway) but so that they understand the real price that others may pay for their lapse.
But you cannot stop there. At that point, you must then work to find ways to keep that mistake from happening again. The only bad mistake is the one you do not learn from, and the only unforgivable mistake is the one that keeps happening over and over. As you analyze why a problem occurred, people may begin the process upset and remorseful, but they should emerge with a plan and a positive approach to make things better going forward.
You should apply this to yourself as well. When you know you’ve screwed up, you should feel terrible about it. But instead of wallowing in the remorse, figure out ways to keep it from happening again and move forward.
People don’t fail because they make mistakes. People fail because they don’t learn from their mistakes.
Help Someone: Fire Them! July 29, 2009
Posted by Chuck Musciano in Leadership.Tags: Leadership, Management Skills, Relationships
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In my last post, I wrote about helping successful people succeed even more by finding them opportunities outside of your organization.We can’t always accommodate every successful person; good leaders help these high-achievers by letting them go to excel somewhere else. It’s hard, but it’s necessary.
But what of those who are not succeeding in your team? Ironically, you use the same solution: you let them go to excel somewhere else. It may be even harder, but it’s certainly just as necessary.
Typically, a person is failing in your organization because they cannot handle their job. We’ve all been in this position, recognizing that an employee simply is not going to be successful for a variety of reasons. In these cases, after exhausting every way to make them successful in their current spot, we must find ways to make them successful somewhere else.
For people who truly want to succeed, this can ultimately be a rewarding experience. I once had a person who worked for me as a Unix administrator. Believe it or not, this was his dream job, but for everyone else it was a nightmare. He was simply not cut out for the world of Unix systems administration. As his performance declined, I finally had to sit this person down and give them the bad news: he was being removed from the Unix admin team.
Tears literally rolled down his cheeks as he saw his dream job disappear. But we did not fire this person. Recognizing the desire but acknowledging the skills mismatch, we moved him to the email management team. And he thrived! He became the greatest email admin ever, and grew to love that job. Later, he shared with me that being cut from the Unix group as the best thing that ever happened to him. The pain of breaking his heart led to the joy of unforeseen success.
But what if you don’t have a great alternative position for someone who cannot handle their job? You still must let them go, but it is up to them to find their new opportunity. Even when we have to fire someone, it is still in their best interest. Someone who is not succeeding in their current position is not happy. That negative influence makes everyone unhappy. By moving them out so they can find a place to be happy, everyone ultimately wins.
I’ve had the unfortunate opportunity to fire a number of people. In almost every case, when they ask why, I explain how they will be incapable of succeeding in their current position. I try to show them that moving to a new opportunity really is for the best, but that’s hard to see right away. But when that person moves on to some place new, where they can succeed and become happy, they will look back on being fired as a good thing. Getting let go is always awful, but it can be the cathartic moment that leads to unimagined success.
Most people hate the thought of firing someone and will avoid doing it at almost any cost. That’s a bad decision and the mark of a weak leader. If you can honestly say that you have exhausted every tool at your disposal to help someone succeed, you have no choice but to let them go. Retaining poor performers to avoid an unpleasant confrontation hurts them, hurts your team, and ultimately hurts you. Good leaders fire unsuccessful people.
And therein lies the importance of firing someone. You are not punishing them for poor performance; you are releasing them to deliver a better performance somewhere else. In these cases, the only true failure is the leader who does not have the wherewithal to fire someone so that they can succeed somewhere else.
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The Original Social Media Guru June 8, 2009
Posted by Chuck Musciano in Book Reviews, Networking.Tags: Best Of 2009, Book Reviews, Books, Communication, Customer Service, Facebook, LinkedIn, Networking, Relationships, Twitter
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If you spend any time doing anything on the internet, you will soon stumble across a special kind of expert who is just dying to help you improve your virtual social life. These self-professed Social Media Gurus promise to reveal deep secrets about Twitter, Facebook, and LinkedIn, all designed to garner you more followers, more attention, and more interest on the internet.
Let’s face it: the vast, vast majority of Social Media Gurus know just a teeny bit more than you do about all this stuff. If you really wanted to learn their secrets, ten minutes with Google (or Bing, which is growing on me) will make you a Social Media Guru, too. And if you really want 100,000 followers, or friends, or connections, one mortifying YouTube video should do the trick.
All these social networking tools are just communication tools: conduits for information. You can learn the mechanics of any of them in a day, and absorb most of the culture in a week. But that doesn’t make you any more social, although you may have made a good start at a network.
What matters is what you send over those conduits. The information you share and how you respond to others is what’s important. It’s the content that counts, not the mechanics of the tool.
Most modern Social Media Gurus want to teach you the mechanics. This is not social networking, just like understanding the mechanics of a piano is not going to make you a piano player. Very few Social Media Gurus can teach you what to send using these systems, once you have mastered the mechanics.
Sadly, the very best Social Media Guru died in 1955, before any of these things were invented. Fortunately for us, he wrote down all his secrets well before he passed away. That Guru was Dale Carnegie, and his secrets are revealed in his book, How To Win Friends & Influence People.
If you have never read this book, do yourself a great favor and pick up a copy. For Amazon’s bargain price of $8.70 ($0.96 on your Kindle) you can learn the secrets of the greatest Social Media Guru in history. Carnegie’s book is easy to read, with each concept presented in a short chapter with supporting anecdotes. If even that’s too much for you, he summarizes each chapter with a one-line moral at the end. The anecdotes are delightful, recalling social situations from the 1920’s and 1930’s that are still relevant today.
If you have read this book before, read it again. You will have the same revelations all over again, and be even more committed to changing the way you communicate with people. Carnegie was among the first, and is still the best, Social Media Guru.
I won’t even try to summarize Carnegie’s advice here. Click the link above, buy the book, and start your summer reading with the one book that could truly improve every relationship you have.
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